Gratitude while FIRE'd

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Another year has come and gone. Last November while watching the sumo tournament, Asanoyama said something that caught my attention. He's been gone from the very top division for sometime and I was happy to see him back. He did well and when he was interviewed after getting a winning record, he said: A lot has happened a long the way, the tournament isn't over yet. So I want to say focused, keep my gratitude in mind and continue giving my best. That is a good attitude to cultivate - an attitude of gratitude.  Last Monday, I stopped at a counter to do a pickup and I realized that people get up each day to show up to work. Later during the week, I stopped by the store to look for replacement bulbs and on my way back to the garage, I saw a worker helping a customer with loading their car and what I felt was gratitude to God. God has been good to me.  I think that sometimes, it's easy to forget the good we have but I think it is important to focus on the good we have, on the bl...
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A Week In The FI/RE'd LIfe: Wednesday - Saturday

 Okay, my goal was to write for each day but I think I'm going to combine the rest of the week. I just didn't have the time for this. 

Wednesday: my goal was to prime some walls. However, I spent so much time in the morning trying to tape up stuff that closer to the afternoon, I had to put that on hold for an appliance delivery. They got here early with the new stove and took the old one away. Then I was debating on getting a sprayer. So I researched a few, debated and eventually went to the store. I looked a few there but decided the prep of the sprayer and cleaning it was something I didn't want to deal with this time. So I didn't start painting until after 6 p.m. I did until 9 p.m. Okay, there were other things in between like a phone call and other stuff. The thing is that I only ended up doing half of it. Had I started earlier instead of debating on the sprayer, I would've finished the whole thing. 


Thursday: I finished my coat of primer. I may have been out later. Oh well...

Friday: I did coat number 2 of the primer. I probably should've gone ahead and painted. I made an appointment to go drop off some recycling  materials. 

Saturday: Too much going on here. I had someone come over early in the day and it was a long day. I did lots of work around the house. The person was here late and shortly after they left, I was ready to turn in. The good news is that I got a lot done that day. 

It doesn't seem like much huh? Interestingly, I didn't have time to sit around and watch something or do nothing. I was really occupied. I didn't even have time to read. The thing is that it's been a few days and I don't feel like recalling the nitty-gritty stuff. 

My point is: there is more to life than work. There are other activities of life besides working. So that when one isn't working a job, it doesn't mean there is a void in their life. There is so much more to life than work - so much involved in the act of living. If you worry about what to do when you FI/RE, I don't think there is the need for it. Unless, your entire identity and essence as a human being is tied to what you do for work. If it is, you are likely to feel lost without it. If you see life as something meant to be lived instead of something meant to be worked through, what occupies your day will come. In fact, I sometimes don't get to the stuff I want to do. Don't let the fear of "being bored" keep you grinding when you can leave and enjoy life.

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